The lyrics go on “it’s never too late to try”
So often we believe we cannot so we don’t
We just accept that this is the way things are
If we’re stuck in a situation, whether it’s a job we hate, a relationship that isn’t serving us, health and weight problems, substance addictions, lack of confidence and self- esteem – it’s easier to not think about it, to gloss over the cracks, damp those feelings down and just get on with what’s going on – being unhappy inside.
Why do we do it?
Because it’s the line of least resistance
To change is difficult
We put all sorts of obstacles in our way
We blame others, circumstances, anything but take responsibility for where we currently are and what we are doing.
If we desire something, if we have goals and aspirations and we’re not fulfilling them – ever wondered why that is
No matter how hard you try – you never succeed –
You have these goals, you keep trying – but it doesn’t work
Well I’ll tell you –
It’s very simple
What you ‘think’ you want and what your internal belief system ‘wants’ for you are often two totally different things
So you end up sabotaging yourself
Whether it’s trying to lose weight, getting the love of your life, giving up smoking, or even the career you would love to have.
The thing is most people would rather just continue with what they know.
It’s comfortable being in that safe place isn’t it?
It might not be what we want but hey “maybe” it will change.
Maybe you’ll wake up one day and the boss will be great, the boyfriend/husband/wife will be better, the weight will have come off all by itself, you’ll be the person we would like to be.
But how likely is that to happen?
The only way to change other people is to change yourself.
And that’s another problem right there
You might have these inner desires that you wouldn’t even share with your nearest and dearest because you know deep down “they” wouldn’t approve.
“they” might laugh at you
“they” might say you’re too old, too young, too tall, too skinny, too fat, too married, too something –
And besides “they” like you the way you are!
And that’s the problem right there – you blame them for ‘keeping you stuck’ because it’s too much trouble to do anything about it.
And what if you changed and “they” didn’t like you anymore?
That happens sometimes – we make changes and people either ‘come with us’ or they disappear from our lives
But if we’re being true to ourselves that’s ok
But you’re the only one that can change you – looking outside yourself for happiness or fulfilment never lasts
You might meet ‘the one’ only to be disappointed down the line when you find they crack their knuckles, or cut their toenails in the kitchen or do something equally anti-social and disgusting!
When you’re happy with yourself, when you take responsibility for your own actions, when you believe in who and what you are – you will attract whatever it is in your life that you desire.
That’s the way it works –
Other people cannot be responsible for your happiness
“You make me so happy” is a nonsense –
Other people don’t make you happy or sad or miserable or ecstatic or or or ….
You make you feel whatever it is you feel
When you believe in yourself, in what you’re doing.
When you know that the point of power is always in the present moment – your life will run very smoothly thank you very much
But it’s getting to that state that is the difficult part, isn’t it?
All very well in theory Adrienne but how do I start?
What do I do to make myself proud each and every day.
Well I have a process that will get you where you want to go, a process that will teach you to be who you truly are, so you can have what you truly want
I’m offering you a free half hour consultation to start you off – no obligation, no ifs, no buts, no maybes
If you want to move out of that stuck place, no matter your age, race, sex, or any other circumstance that you ‘believe’ has kept you where you are –
Give me a call
Send me an email
Say “YES ADRIENNE”
In fact say “Hell Yeah Adrienne” I need to move out of this ASAP!!
COME ON – YOU’VE GOT NOTHING TO LOSE BUT AN AWFUL LOT TO GAIN –
(LIKE YOUR LIFE)
Make yourself PROUD ….
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