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Overwhelm

OverwhePersonal Developmentlm is the cousin of procrastination, which is closely related to doubt, worry and fear.  Let me explain.

When you have a goal or even just ‘something you need to do’, if it’s something you’ve not done before, in your mind it can become scary.

That’s because of your thoughts.  Well your subconscious actually which is a little devil.  That will hold you back from whatever you desire.

It works like this.  Say you have a goal, and that goal is to call 10 people about your business in the next couple of days because the long term goal is to earn more money.

Well firstly you decide how much more you want, you have a figure in your head and come Monday morning you’re fresh and up and you start making calls.  By 11am you’ve not spoken to a soul.  Everyone’s either in meetings, on holiday, or just plain unavailable.  So you go make some coffee.  You gird your loins and start again.  By 12.30 you’ve spoken to one person who isn’t interested in your service or product.   You decide to stop for lunch, which then lasts longer than it ought.  Maybe two hours.  You sit down again at your desk at 3, having had some very urgent tidying up to do for the last half hour, and emails to answer and Facebook people to connect with.  At 5pm you decide to call it a day.  Come Tuesday morning you start later and the day progresses pretty much as yesterday, although you did manage to catch one person who said call me back next week as this week isn’t good for me.

By the time you go to bed on Tuesday night, your mind is already thinking perhaps I aimed too high.  What if I go lower with my expectations?  What if I make the goal not as much, even though some bills have come in and you’re now wondering how you’re going to pay them.    As the week progresses you begin to feel totally overwhelmed with all of  it,  your doubt has turned into worry which has turned into fear and then that had becomes procrastination and finally you stop trying.  Say Ouch.

What has happened is that you have allowed your thoughts to rule your actions.  And it’s not an easy thing to change them.

But in order to change your circumstances you have to change your thinking.

There are some simple ways to do that.

The first being to stop worrying.  The only thing worry does is cause stress.  And I know it’s easy for me to say and sometimes very difficult to do.

One of the reasons that you procrastinate is often a fear of the unknown.  After all its called the comfort zone for a reason and when you attempt something new your subconscious will often kick in, whisper in your ear and say stuff like “why are you bothering, isn’t it ok here.  What’s the matter with you”?  and sometimes unfortunately it’s not just your subconscious its your nearest and dearest.  Friends, family, colleagues, who all put doubts into your mind.

What you have to remember is that as much as they care about you they have their own agenda and its often in their best interests rather than yours.  Let’s face it if you change, move forward, earn more, you might leave them behind and then where will they be?

You have to be strong and be true to yourself.  Pushing through the barriers and finally living to your true potential might mean letting go of stuff, of relationships, of thoughts, things that don’t serve you anymore.

What you have to remember is that you only regret things in life you don’t do.

I have a programme that could set you on your way to freedom.  Freedom from those doubts and fears and worries.  Freedom to be who you deserve to be, living to your true potential.

Check out my link below

And let today really be the day you make the change.  Choose life.

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5 Secrets To Stop Procrastination and Start Living

Personal DevelopmentHave you started saying to people “blimey where did the year go”?

As soon as it hits November, the evenings are longer and the weather is chillier and we’re on the countdown to Christmas. Read the rest of this entry »

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The Number One Secret to Achieving Your Goals

Personal DevelopmentIts 8 weeks to Christmas

OMG I hear you saying

How awful

How dreadful

Or maybe how wonderful Read the rest of this entry »

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Wonderful Wednesday

Wow

Its Wednesday

Why it is wonderful

Just because … Read the rest of this entry »

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Choose Day

Today is the day you get to choose

Well you get to choose any day really

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Life is Short

“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride!”
― Hunter S. Thompson

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Mojo Finder

Personal Developmentwhat is a ‘mojo’

and why would you need one? Read the rest of this entry »

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Life Lesson 101

Personal DevelopmentI read a wonderful quote today

 “Life in itself is an empty canvas; it becomes whatsoever you paint on it

You can paint misery, you can paint bliss.  This freedom is your Glory”

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Tired of Being Obsessed with Dieting ?

Personal Development

Tired of not fitting into the clothes?

Tired of hating what you see in the mirror?

Tired of not feeling Fabulous?

 

Can’t get a handle on how you look, how you feel,?

It never changes

No matter what diet, no matter what exercise regime

It never changes

 90% of women will spend their life on diets

That’s just the way it is

They’ll go to the gym, do exercises, try anything once, twice, whatever

 But for the rest of you if really want to finally, finally, finally get out of that

                                    Dieting spiral,

If you really want to Become the Fabulous Gorgeous Wonderful Woman

                                                            You are destined to Be

You have only course of action –

Contact me NOW

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                                I’ve been there, I’ve done it – and I want to help you do it too

                                                   Stop agonising – Stop the treadmill (excuse the pun!!)

 Contact me Today –  admin@theawarenesszone.co.uk

            If not Now, When?

 

 

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What You Want Already Exists

Personal DevelopmentIn order to move forward, you have to have BIG goals
They say that if your ‘why’ doesn’t make you cry it’s not big enough Read the rest of this entry »

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